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The Mother and Son Who Found Each Other After 51 Years

A Polish woman gave up her newborn during the war. He was adopted by an American family. They reunited in 2002

The Mother and Son Who Found Each Other After 51 Years

In the winter of 1944, a Polish woman named Maria was hiding in the attic of a farmhouse near Krakow, eight months pregnant. She had escaped from the ghetto in 1942 and had been on the run ever since. She was alone, her husband was dead, and she had nowhere to go.

When she went into labor, the farmer who had been hiding her delivered the baby himself in the hayloft. Maria was too weak to hold her son. The farmer took the baby to a Catholic orphanage in Warsaw, where the baby was given the name Stefan and placed for adoption.

In 1947, an American couple visiting Warsaw adopted Stefan. They renamed him Thomas. They brought him to Ohio. He grew up as the only Polish adoptee in his small town, and he never knew that his birth mother was alive.

Maria survived the war. She returned to Krakow in 1945 and spent the next 58 years looking for her son. She visited orphanages, hospitals, and the Polish Red Cross. She wrote letters to newspapers. She never stopped searching.

In 2002, a Polish historian discovered a set of orphanage records that had been hidden in the basement of a church in Warsaw. The records listed the names of every child who had been placed for adoption between 1944 and 1946. Stefan was on the list, along with his adoptive family name and his current address in Ohio.

The historian wrote to Thomas in English. Thomas read the letter and did not believe it. He flew to Warsaw. He went to the address on the letter, a small apartment on the third floor of a building on Florianska Street.

He knocked. Maria opened the door. She was 82 years old, and she looked at him for a very long time before she spoke. Then she put her hands on his face and said, in Polish, You have your father eyes.

Thomas stayed in Warsaw for two weeks. He learned his birth name was Stefan. He learned his mother had spent 58 years looking for him. He learned that every Polish orphanage in the country had received a letter from her asking if anyone had adopted Stefan.

Maria died in 2004. Thomas scattered her ashes in the garden of the farmhouse where she had hidden during the war.